I have no idea how to start this post. So I'm just going to go ahead and jump into it.
I have this friend, we've been friends for almost 12 years now. We only just recently got in touch again. It's been all fb messages and text messages the last 6 years because I moved. Now, I've come back and we've hung out and all of that and at first it was great. We also work together.
Now, she's always mad at me because I'm mad at her. If that makes any sense? Like I said we work together, she's always everyday late and then leaving early. Something is always coming up. By that I mean boyfriends. And when she's at work she doesn't work she spends the whole time on her phone.
So I've gotten angry at her about it all, because I'm pulling her weight. She knows I get mad. She told our boss that it was "my problem and I have the attitude problem". I have talked to her face to face about why I'm mad. Several times it did not change. So yes I even texted it. It did not change.
This has been going on for several months now. Our boss is angry and annoyed. I'm also annoyed and hurt that she does this. She has also lied to me on several occasions. She's also texted me asking if she can go home, and that she did not want me mad. At the same time she also posted FB status of where she was going with who and all that. But told us at work she was "sick".
Now I haven't really spoken to her in a few days. She's blowing up my phone asking why I'm angry and if I don't want her around anymore. And what my problem is. How do I even reply? Like I said we've been over this several times face to face as well as text. My other friend from college says to cut her out of my life, because this is so re-occurring. But I feel bad in a way, but not so much in other ways?
I'm just not sure what to do? Or how to reply? Or what to say to her?