I'm not a huge 'friend' person, I have about 4 close friends that I've known for years. I recently became friendly with my son's classmate's mom...she's sweet, though there are some things we don't agree on, but we're friendly and hang out occasionally.
So, recently, I feel she's started to overstep boundaries, but I'm not sure if it's me or what. She was going to drop something off at my house, and asked if my husband would be home (he works from home). I said yes, she said, "Great! Leave the door unlocked and just leave it in the kitchen, then Sean can help me rearrange the stuff in my car." Um, no. Sean is WORKING and doesn't have time to help you rearrange stuff during the work day. Then she asked for his cell phone number to see when he'd be available...I told her I'd be available between noon and 2 and she could come then or not at all. I didn't give her my husband's number.
We live across the street from a playground, and we met there one day to play...my husband called and said he had just gotten home. She heard me tell my son that daddy was home and asked if she could use my bathroom...I said sure let's go, and she was like, No, no, I'll take him...Can you stay here and watch Peter? (her other son)...She took about 20 minutes so I headed home with her and my son and she was in the office trying to chat up my husband while he was on a work call. She actually looked ANNOYED that I came home...I told her, very sternly, that we had to go out and it was time for her to head home. She looked embarrassed and left.
She's texted me several times about coming over or having a girls night, but yet, Sean is always welcome...I'm getting annoyed by her behavior.
WWYD? End the friendship? Keep a distance or am I being a jealous lunatic?