This is the first time I've ever blogged so please bare with me. My question is should I be worried, my fianc? started a new job a few months ago and we just had our first child in mid oct. and up untill the day after thanksgiving I thought everything was going fine. But he started txt a lot on his phone and he never leaves his phone out of his reach. We've had problems in the past with him txting an ex and we worked through that and it is no longer an issues. But I found out that it is a girl he work with that he's txting. My problem with this is he's txt her to the wee hrs of the morning like 2am and that he has in the past flirted with girls that were supossedlt just friends through txt. I've asked him about this and he says it's just friendly convo and that I should trust him. I told him that it bothered me because it takes forever for me to get a response back from him when I txt him but he txt back and forth for hours to others and that it makes me feel like he is ignoring me. But he seems to brush it off and say that I don't trust him and that I should because he's not given me any reason not to, but when I bring up those past examples he says I misunderstood what they were talking about in a few cases , or that we were not together when it happen, and he didn't even acknowledge one of the cases. Am I overreacting, should I take his word for it? I have thought to ask him if I could see the txt convo, but in the past he's deleted the texts so that if I do pick look at his phone there's nothing there. I'm not sure what to do I would love any advice and an out perspective on this issue. Any input would greatly help.