My husband & I thur a suprize party for my mother in law. I did all the running around for this party which I dint mind do. My mother in law is a vey sweet person. He said the party was really nice & it looked great. But as the night wore on I was waiting for him to tell me how niced I look. I am still waiting & will be forever I guess. He has told me while we were out that I looked shity because I didnt have makeup on. That hurt so bad I cryed all day from it. I dont care about wearing makeup everyday I do on special occasions. I was raised with a dad that would say you dont need to wear that war paint so makeup dosnt mean that much to me. I feel he wants me to be someone else that Im not. I feel he dosnt love me anymore. I have execpted that I am just trying to come to trims with it. There will be so many people hurt if & when we end this. I have faught so hard for many years to keep us together that I am just so tired. If we split up it is going to kill his mom & I dont want to hurt her. I am so confused & dont know what to do.