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My Step Mother In Law is has been making comments that are starting to make me uncomfotable.
Some background, DH's parents got divorced about 4 years ago. DH's dad got remarried in March 2010. DH and I got married in May 2010. So, I have only known my step MIL for about 3 years. We get along fine. We have dinner at their house once a week.
She has been planning a trip for the family to go to Hawaii Oct 2013.
DH and I are talking about having kids next year sometime, but nothing is set in stone
Here's my issue:
Two weeks in a row after dinner she has commented about us having a baby. Saying, "With all the work your doing to your house and everything, make sure you don't get pregnant before Hawaii."
Almost like she is presurring us not to have a baby.
The first time I just brushed it off. Thinking to myself, I can travel pregnant. But now its been twice.
Part of me wants to confront her. Saying why does she care if I'm pregnant in Hawaii.
I would understand if she wants us to enjoy Hawaii without a baby in tow, but that is not what I think she is saying. (And at this point, that is not the plan)
The other part of me just wants to leave it alone.
I guess I just don't understand why she cares, or feels like she has a right to dictate what DH and I are going to do.
She is the only one out of the three sets of would-be grandparents that is bringing up us having a baby.
Has anyone else experienced something similar?