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My husband and I have been married for 6 months. He recently admitted to me that he still loves a girl from high school he never actually dated. It's a very long story. But many problems have emerged from this situation. He's gone to see her alone in her apartment. Hes lied to me saying he was going to work when he went to see her. He told me that he hoped that his love for me would be so great that it wouldn't matter that he wasn't with her. He's told her that he misses her and the puppy love they shared. Everytime we fight he calls her "to vent". So now that some of the background has been presented, am I overreacting by asking him to completely cut off any form of contact with her? Everytime I bring it up he has a different excuse as to why he feels that I'm being crazy or insecure for no reason. I don't want my marriage to be over because I'm actually asking too much and handling this wrong. Any advice would be appreciated. I want to know both sides. Should I stand firm with my request or should I drop it?