We have a couple of friends with whom we used to party. As soon as I got PG we basically stopped hanging out. She couldn't have kids and always seemed like didn't want to anyway. The last time I saw her (A) I was 12 weeks pg and then she always had a health excuse not to hang out. Even when DH went to their house to play poker A was always in her room.
I had/have a little crush on the husband (B). Just because he is the type I used to like when I was a teenager. Obviously nothing went anywhere but inside my head. I haven't seen him since I was very pregnant.
Yesterday a mutual friend said: "oh so apparently A and B are finalizing their divorce and C (single gorgeous party guy) took B out and had a bunch of 20 y/o lay him down" *grain of salt obviously*
As I was saying "what? And ewwwwwww I had him held in such high esteem" my brain was saying "OMG HE IS SINGLE! available! Too bad I'm feling so unattractive lately"
It took me a little while to rationally analyze the situation and remind my animal instinct that I am happily married. But still.....
Thankfully I got very well laid last night.