Wow, it was completely stupid, stupider than I initially thought when I heard the whole acute kidney failure from 2 years of diabetes.
There would be immediate treatments if she was in acute failure, not in 4 days, I'll get dialysis, let's hang out until then, thanks for the bloodwork. Nevermind that whole jump to full on failure with no previous complications, no signs of developing disease.
Oh, and I did have a friend die at age 25 while awaiting a transplant. They just brushed off that whole bit with the "lifestyle change". I think that pissed me off the most.