Short story: Wife hides major debt from husband for second time in 5 years, only confesses both times because she is about to be exposed. He explodes with rage and says she's a terrible wife and mother.
Most of the posts are relatively sympathetic to the OP, which surprised me a little. Hiding huge amounts of money is somewhat similar to cheating in my book, and you can bet if my H did something like this I'd probably blast him verbally and definitely call him a terrible husband.
What do you guys think?