For reaffirming why I love this board. The main reason I signed up for this board is I wanted to get a woman's perspective on a lot of key issues I was dealing with. The "guys with kids" posts have been very interesting reading for me. So now I will be arrogant and toot my own horn:
I have a great job with good benefits. I am in great physical shape. I am not a troll (at least I dont think I am). I have minimal debt (house and car payment).
I dont have any addictions, criminal record, or beer gut. I am not clingy, possessive, obsessive, a mama's boy, dog or player.
I ALSO have four awesome children. I know for a fact I am dismissed quite often on Match because of this. I don't hide it...says right on my profile that I have four children. I have always known that women would be intimidated or put off by the number of children I had. Dating shouldnt be hard for a guy like me but it is. After reading the varied responses on those 2 posts it has given me a better understanding of why.
Kudos on helping a guy out!!!