So I am the MOH in one of my best friend's weddings in May. I don't really know the other bridesmaids, all of which are close. I have taken the lead, and I think appropriately so as MOH, in the planning of her bridal shower and bachelorette party. While planning the bridal shower, the only other involved BM, suggested a garden eclectic tea party theme in opposition to my sophisticated/glam ideas. We went with the garden eclectic tea party for the shower. When planning the shower, 3 BMs met and delegated responsibilities. I had the cake and the favors. Get an email after the meeting from the BM, saying I was no longer doing either, to which I responded that I am doing both.
So being that we are just over two months away from the wedding, I sent out an email to all BMs last week asking for input on dates, ideas for the bachelorette party. Got two responses only relating to the date. So I went ahead, met with the bride-to-be and planned the bachelorette party. Last night after sending out a very detailed email of what we'd be doing, I get a reply all from the garden eclectic BM trashing my ideas, and saying that I should really seek input before making decisions. UGH! I am so frustrated with her. She always jumps in last minute to change everything. I have already spend hours planning this party.