I can only afford to travel once to her state (she is in Illinois, I am in Florida). I want to go now so I can see her, tell her goodbye, let her see my boys, etc. If I go now I will not be able to go back for her funeral. Flights for the boys and I will be around $2000. I will feel forever guilty if I miss the funeral, but I want to see her, speak to her, hug her, and tell her how much I love her.
What would you do?