MH and I have been together for 3 years, and married for almost a year. (We got married just after we found out I was KU.) Anyway, I thought that I knew him pretty well, but I have suspicions that he is wearing my lingerie. I haven't actually caught him in the act yet, though.
Here is why I think that he might be wearing my lingerie when he is masturbating: I found a suspicious crusty white spot on the crotch of one of my skongs. I thought that maybe I had forgotten to wash it after one of our romps, so I made sure to spot treat it and throw it in the wash. About a week later, I found the same skong with a crusty white spot on it and I hadn't worn it since I washed it.
Do you think that I should wait until I catch him in the act to discuss it with him? Or should I confront him about it and see what he says? Is this normal behavior for married men?
ETA: Maybe everyone doesn't know what a skong is. It's a combo of a skirt and a thong. I just wanted you to be able to visualize a man in it, so that you could tell me if it was strange behavior or not.