Thanks for the advise. I hate to see her divorce if they can work it out. I know there were other issues that needed worked out with them but I think the texts crossed the line. Problems or not you don't cross that line. I feel terrible for her. I was of wondering if you knew of any therapists that you could recommend. I'm thinking if I can get her to go it might help her decide where she wants to go next. I know how I feel but I don't want to steer her in the wrong path because I am to close to the situation. Thanks again for the great advise.