Ive been married for over 5 years and for all of those years our sex life has been an issue. Even before we were married that was the case and I was hoping that it would get better but of course it didn't.
Well now Im at my wits end. Ive talked and talked to my husband about this and how I desire to have sex more than 1/month sometimes we go longer and he just seems to be content with the way it is. He says he's not content but if I don't bring it up we could easily go 2-3 months without having sex. Ive never meet a guy that doesn't desire to have sex. Im even to the point now that I am thinking about other people and exes that I have had in the past. I don't want to step outside of my marriage but I just don't know what to do. One of my exes would be happy to oblige me and quite honestly Im considering it. I am in need of some deep passionate sex so badly I don't know what to do. I feel like I am always horny and never get to release it. I love him and I don't want to hurt him but I have needs that are just not being met. Even when we do have sex its always the same thing the same way and in the same order which is very boring and most times not pleasing to me.
I don't know what to do. Any help or advice would be appreciated.