Some of you may recall that I met my new guy when a friend of mine went with me to a singles party. She chatted him up for most of the night. But all three of us spent the time together and I talked with him some too. She never held hands, kissed, or anything like that.
The next day he called her and left a vm making sure we got home ok. She never responded or returned his call. She told me that she was not interested and had no intention of communicating with him.
Well two weeks later I get an email from him asking me to lunch. I again asked my friend if she was planning to contact him or if she had interest. She said no. So I told him I would go to lunch and I told her I was meeting him for lunch.
Immediately after that she and her sister went on a tirad calling me pathedic and desparate on facebook and then deleted me as a friend.
I have just received an invite to an all girls housewarming party for one of our mutual friends. This friend and I have a lot in common as we are both single mothers of similar age boys and I would like to cultivate this friendship. However, if my ex friend is going to be at the party I don't know how to handle it?