THIS IS NOT ME!!! Friend of a friend, REALLY
anyway, Susie is married to Bill; 2nd marriage for both, they are in their mid-30's, have been married about 4 years and have 6 kids between them. My friend has known Bill since high school, but is friends w/ his wife too. Obviously, there's a lot of backstory, but long story short, Bill asked Susie to be in a 3 some w/ another guy earlier this year and she said no way b/c she's totally not into any kinky stuff (and I barely know her and could tell you that!) so of course, she's got her undies in a wad and there's been tension between them ever since. In the midst of some of the fighting about this, it came out that he "messed around" with another guy after his first marriage ended, so now she's questioning whether he's gay or not. When friend told me, I was like "hell, yes, he's gay" or at least bisexual. He comes from a very strict Catholic family, so I think he's probably been gay and avoiding it his whole life. Thoughts? I just don't buy that adults are "experimenting" with their sexuality. Teenagers, even early 20's maybe I could buy it, but by your late 20's/early 30's you should have a pretty strong sense of what/who you're attracted to. What would you do if that were you?