My husband and I love to entertain. We usually invite my brother and his girlfriend to come and hang out neither of us have kids but share common interests. Last weekend we finally got married, and are now the only married couple in our group of friends. On sundays we usually invite a bunch of ppl for football. this is usually planned atleast a week out, and we get food and beer/ beverages to provide for our guests. Today ONE person showed up, after atleast 5 others said they would come. now we are left with all this food. its not so much that we have left overs, but we still have yet to hear from anyone on why theyre not here?! I told my husband that were not entertaining for awhile. I think it is rude that people cant even just let us know that theyre not coming. How do we approach this issue??