A friend of the family lost her husband to cancer last month. They were in their 60s, and he was sick for a while ... we last saw her at the wake, and through my mom (they're friends) I heard that she's doing O.K. and she had time to make peace with it.
Anyway, I'm getting ready to send out our holiday cards and I'm debating what to do about hers. I'm hesitant because the card has three photos of me and MH - one from our April wedding (which they were invited to but declined since he was sick), and two from our summer vacation. I just don't want to make her sad with three photos of a happy young married couple when her husband is gone, know what I mean?
I also don't know whether I should write a note on the back of the card, which we didn't do for anyone else. And if so, all I can think of us, "We hope you're doing well" ... and then what?
Any suggestions? I know I'm overthinking it but I want to do the right thing.[Poll]