I know this question has likely been asked a million times, but search on the site never works for me. We've had 2 cats for 6 years, both acquired at the same time as kittens, so they've been together since 7 wks old. Tuesday we went to the shelter and adopted another cat - somewhere around 3-5 years old. We've set new kitty up in her own room to give her time to adjust to us before we start intros with the other 2 cats.
Kazie is just curious about the new kitty, laying outside the door talking. Kami is terrified and acting out - and she hasn't even seen new kitty yet. She's using the bathroom in random places, attacking Kazi anytime he walks near her. Unfortunately new kitty isn't as laid back as we thought, so I have a feeling this is only going to escalate as we try to introduce them later (we're going to take this super slow).
Anything we should be doing now to help Kami relax? Any advice on how to make this go as smoothly as possible is greatly appreciated!