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16 & Pregnant (spoilers)

Ok, her boyfriend is the biggest d-bag on the show yet. Seriously.

And I hate the name Lyle. She didn't have any better names for the kid?

At least her parents aren't BSC too. 

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  • He was a super huge ass!  If I had someone act like that when I was in labor I would have freaked out.  That girl is so passive, she needs to quit mumbling and tell him to man up.

    Also, what us up with the bangs on those girls?

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  • I have no words. This guy is the biggest DB EVER!
  • Watching her play RockBand with her brother almost made me cry.  Why do these girls do this to themselves?  
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    Watching her play RockBand with her brother almost made me cry.  Why do these girls do this to themselves?  

    I did too!

    He is the biggest manipulator narcisistic (sp) person I have seen on tv in a long time. I cringe at the thought that he will actually have some sort of influence on this child. That baby would be better off if he jumped ship and never had anything to do with him. Ugh he is awful.

  • DH suggested there is maybe a slow gas leak in this town that's causing everyone to mumble. Seriously KU girl, her mom, her friends. You can't understand anyone! This episode should come with subtitles.
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    image Jim&Jaime:
    Watching her play RockBand with her brother almost made me cry.  Why do these girls do this to themselves?  

    I did too!

    He is the biggest manipulator narcisistic (sp) person I have seen on tv in a long time. I cringe at the thought that he will actually have some sort of influence on this child. That baby would be better off if he jumped ship and never had anything to do with him. Ugh he is awful.

    Normally, I think that the fathers should have some sort of role in the child's life. But in this circumstance, I think it would be better if he moved far, far away.

    On a brighter note, it seems as though both her mom and his mom are highly involved, which is a great thing. 

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  • Omg... I want to slap the sh!t out of that kid. What a waste of life. I hope his mom is proud.
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    image Jim&Jaime:
    Watching her play RockBand with her brother almost made me cry.  Why do these girls do this to themselves?  

    I did too!

    He is the biggest manipulator narcisistic (sp) person I have seen on tv in a long time. I cringe at the thought that he will actually have some sort of influence on this child. That baby would be better off if he jumped ship and never had anything to do with him. Ugh he is awful.

    But isn't that the point.  He's a kid.  A child.  I have a hard time holding him to stepping up when we having doctors coming out these week saying we should cut up hot dogs for kids until they're 14.  So, we're supposed to cut their meat, but indulge their hormones as well and allow them to have sex?  I wish the show encouraged abstinence more than it does.  It's a great vehicle to prove the point that the act of sex just isn't worth it unless you're ready for the consequences. 

    And before I get flamed to high heaven, I do think we should teach safe sex as well. 

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    DH suggested there is maybe a slow gas leak in this town that's causing everyone to mumble. Seriously KU girl, her mom, her friends. You can't understand anyone! This episode should come with subtitles.

    lol i agree!  but nikkole really needs to grow a back bone!

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    DH suggested there is maybe a slow gas leak in this town that's causing everyone to mumble. Seriously KU girl, her mom, her friends. You can't understand anyone! This episode should come with subtitles.

    There is a Nuclear Power plant not too far from there. That may be why they are "damaged".

    I can't believe that this girl went back to this piece of "crap" so many times. Obviously her mom being divorced didn't teach her anything. i wonder how many times mom went back and forth to dad before finally realizing she was in a bad relationship and left, therefore already setting a bad example for her kids.

    It was nice to see that while she was laboring both grandmas were there trying to help, but seriously if I were his mom I would have dragged him out of the room and smacked him a few times and then placed Nikkoles hands on his testicles and told her to squeeze as hard as she could.

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    Watching her play RockBand with her brother almost made me cry.  Why do these girls do this to themselves?  

    I did too!

    He is the biggest manipulator narcisistic (sp) person I have seen on tv in a long time. I cringe at the thought that he will actually have some sort of influence on this child. That baby would be better off if he jumped ship and never had anything to do with him. Ugh he is awful.

    Normally, I think that the fathers should have some sort of role in the child's life. But in this circumstance, I think it would be better if he moved far, far away.

    On a brighter note, it seems as though both her mom and his mom are highly involved, which is a great thing. 

    I totally agree with you.

    It was comforting to see although the mother is a complete pushover when it comes to men, does seem to care about her child. That is a refreshing change after last week's train wreck.

  • The sad thing is, Nikkole will probably waste the next 10 years of her life being the fall back girl he keeps stringing along. She'll be stuck with the baby and the douche will knock up that other girl Kyla too. He was really abusive. If I was that mom I would have throat punched him in the labour room.
  • I'm so glad I was finally able to catch an episode-I missed last week!

    Her "boyfriend" was a douche. Even DH pointed out that she has issues with low self esteem. I felt so bad for her the night of the dance. She was having so much fun with her friends and left because of him and he didn't even show up to see her. What a jerk. And he did it on purpose because he told her not to go to the dance? Whatever. I feel bad for her brother as well. There's a 50/50 chance that watching his older sister get pregnant and have a child is going to mess with him. My heart bled for her while she was playing rockband with him, but thank goodness he was there and not her mom..who likely would have made her feel worse.

    Is it just me, or does the spelling of her name annoy you? It bothered me every time it was shown on tv. I suppose that might have influenced her in deciding to name her kid Lyle though. Ick, what a name!

  • He has broken that poor girl's spirit. He is abusive- he controls her and tries to isolate her. It's only a matter of time before things get physical, if they haven't already.

    I think her mom needed to stop going, "I'm number 1, I'm number 1" to him in the restaurant. She really was on his level at that point. The baby is #1. She isn't. He isn't. The baby is. 

    I wish his mother escorted him out of the hospital room. He was being awful and while I am glad she verbally put him in his place, I felt he needed a lot more than what she gave him. I like the testicle squeezing idea! ha. Good one!

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    He has broken that poor girl's spirit. He is abusive- he controls her and tries to isolate her. It's only a matter of time before things get physical, if they haven't already.

    It was crazy to see a 16yo being that controlling, abusive and manipulative.  I couldn't believe when he was telling her he wanted to hear her say her mom trumped him.  That's textbook and he's SIXTEEN!

  • I agree that the boyfriend was a complete a$$hole. He was very immature, selfish, and disrespectful, and Nikkole was stupid to think he would just magically change because she had a baby. She was also pretty immature and seemed to have low self esteem, but at least she has a mom who cares and was there to help her with her baby. I don't think she would have gotten through it without her.  Her life is going to change really fast now, and she's gonna have to do a lot of growing up!

    However, in all fairness, the girl's mom was pretty immature, too. Yes, I completely understand her being so frustrated by having to see that little twit step all over her daughter, but how many of your H's would have a problem with your mother telling him that she's #1 and he'll always just be #2 ?

    (And to the above poster that wondered how many times her mom got back with her dad before finally leaving him - how do we know it was the mom who left? If she's anything like her daughter, the dad was probably the one to leave...)

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    However, in all fairness, the girl's mom was pretty immature, too. Yes, I completely understand her being so frustrated by having to see that little twit step all over her daughter, but how many of your H's would have a problem with your mother telling him that she's #1 and he'll always just be #2 ?

    The thing is, he isn't her H.  He isn't even really a boyfriend.  He's just a douche bag who knocked her up and now is stringing her along.  He doesn't deserve the respect that a husband, fiance, or even boyfriend should get.

    If that girl doesn't put her mother ahead of him moving forward, she is going to be in a world of hurt.

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  • You know what I'd wish MTV would do?!!?

    During the reunion show, I wish they would bring on the parents of these kids and have Dr. Drew ask them, "WTH...why are you letting your child behave like this and/or let your child be treated this way?"    I especially would like to see him grill the parents of the young fathers who are complete pricks.

    There is no way I'd let my daughter be treated like that...ever...or let my son treat a young woman this way. I hope these parents are embarrassed when watching these episodes of how their kids behaved and were treated.

    *sorry for the rant--but I was so ticked last night Angry*

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    However, in all fairness, the girl's mom was pretty immature, too. Yes, I completely understand her being so frustrated by having to see that little twit step all over her daughter, but how many of your H's would have a problem with your mother telling him that she's #1 and he'll always just be #2 ?


    Are you really comparing our HUSBANDS to some immature, abusive 16 year old kid who constantly dumps his pregnant girlfriend? Really? 

  • I was SOOOO annoyed watching this show!!  First of all, I'm glad someone else mentioned the mumbling.  I had to turn up my tv so loud just to be able to barely hear them and understand them.  I swear MTV did this to the past teen mom shows because just for these shows I can't hear anything.  

     Nikkole's voice was very monotone.  And did anyone else get thoroughly annoyed with her constant smiling?!?!  it's like she had no other emotions and smiled when talking about how her bf ditched her, or how awful this or that was.  No matter the situation, she just smiled while talking.  Show some [email protected] emotion!   

     The boyfriend reminded me of so many guys I went to HS with, just SO annoying, immature, beyond words.   I almost stopped watching this particular episode because he was just so awful and was really getting on my nerves.  

     And regarding her name and spelling, did anyone else notice the mom's name is Rikki.  Two k's, so I guess that's how she got her spelling.  Rikki and Nikki.  

     I have a feeling next week's episode is going to be similar with another DB boyfriend and just oooooh so annoying.   

  • I was happy to see Nikkole being the one to take care of the child most of the time-feeding him, changing him, getting up in the middle of the night, etc. Yes, her mom did help some but unlike some of the other girls who have been featured on the show like the one from last week and for awhile Farrah, it's nice to see her accepting the responsiblity of having a kid at 16.
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    He has broken that poor girl's spirit. He is abusive- he controls her and tries to isolate her. It's only a matter of time before things get physical, if they haven't already.

    It was crazy to see a 16yo being that controlling, abusive and manipulative.  I couldn't believe when he was telling her he wanted to hear her say her mom trumped him.  That's textbook and he's SIXTEEN!

    OMG Yes! This made me so angry. The poor girl has been in labor for hours upon hours and he started that petty argument when all she wanted/needed was support. And then the "Say it Nikkole. I want to hear you say it." bit was SO wrong. He has a bad, more abusive future ahead of him with women.

    But, I suspect that maybe his father treated his mother similarly because his mother didn't really handle the situation that well and we never saw his father during the episode so he could be out of the picture.

    Nikkole's self esteem was obviously a complete wreck. She needs to focus on herself and that baby. I don't think she was a dumb or trashy girl, she just fell for a boy, let him influence her and made a mistake. I hope for the best for her.

    Last thought: It really irked me that whoever this Kyla girl was kept getting back with him, too. Have some respect for yourself and the mother of that child, Kyla. She had no business getting in the middle of all of that.  

  • Does anyone else find it weird that girls date baby daddies? I dunno, a teen father was hardly someone who got my attention back when I was dating.
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    Does anyone else find it weird that girls date baby daddies? I dunno, a teen father was hardly someone who got my attention back when I was dating.

    Totally.  If I were single, I probably wouldn't date guys with kids NOW let alone when I was 16 years old.

    But I like to think 16yo me also wouldn't have gotten involved with a guy like that in the first place.  Totally different mindset.

  • DH wondered the same thing-why that other girl would get involved with a baby daddy and wouldn't that be weird for her. i think that much like the kids are so young and have no real concept of what it's like to have a child, they also have no concept for the fact that some kid is a father. it's just complete disregard for such a huge thing. hence how they get themselves in to these messes in the first place.

     

  • I could not even make it throught he episode last night because of the girls voice. It was so deep, mumbling ---- drove me INSANE!
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    I could not even make it throught he episode last night because of the girls voice. It was so soft, mumbling ---- drove me INSANE!
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  • I bet that other girl is 13 or 14 yrs old.
  • The part that stands out most during her labour for me, was when he mentioned he wanted Chinese food and then told her that men have a higher tolerance for pain.
  • I really wish part of this show was offering these girls counseling.  The BF in this episode was obviously a jerky, immature 16 year old boy who was not unexpectedly not ready for parenthood.  The teen mom would be better suited to be counseled about planning for her life and the future with her baby and figuring out how she was going to do it than chasing after this guy.  I thought the whole going to prom thing was a little much. That is a privilege that shouldn't exist anymore once you get pregnant. All the money and priority should have been for the baby, those fun times are over. I hope all of these girls are smart enough to get orders for child support. He may not make anything now but eventually he will and even if not involved in the child's life he should be made to financially support his child.


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