So growing up - until I was about 16 - I was the chubby kid in school. And my sister was tits on a stick...long and lean and perfect and beautiful. She could eat whatever she wanted and never gain a pound - and I soon learned that wasn't going to work for me. My mom unwittingly said some kind of hurtful things to me when I was younger - and my sister was merciless.
Well, fast forward 15 years and now I have a nephew and 3 nieces. One niece is a tiny gymnast, one is a beanpole, and the other is not the LEAST bit chubby, but definitely not tiny like the other two. Today when I was talking to my mom and she said my sister and BIL were looking REALLY good (they've been losing weight for a cruise they are going on) she made the comment that both she and my sister think Kailee is getting "really chunky" and has a bad "swayback." Um, I have a swayback.
That pissed me OFF so badly, because it is like my childhood all over again. She is beautiful, smart and funny - she truly has the most potential out of all four of those kids and I cannot STAND that they are already judging her on her weight - which is perfectly healthy.
GAWD - I am so PISSED!