Sex & Romance
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Newlyweds Struggling With Sex
Hi, I'm new here.
Okay, so my husband and I have been married for almost a month and were (are) both virgins. I'm 27, he's 28. Even before we got married we fooled around, a little oral here and a little fingering there. Now that we are married, we've been having a hard time trying to have penetrative sex. We've tried so many positions and I'm always aroused from foreplay, but we can never get it in. I think neither one of us know what the hell we are doing, lol. We try to use as much lube as we can, but still nothing.
I'm starting to wonder if it's me, maybe I'm just too tight, but he can get a finger in with no problem. I masturbate a lot, but I have never penetrated myself before. Hell, I could never get a tampon in either. My husband is also a bit on the heavier side, around 260 and I'm 140. He is a bit on the small size too. I figure maybe that is one of our problems too. I don't know what else to do. I really want to have full on sex! It's so frustrating not being able to finally do it. Can you guys help me out?