I have been married for many years to my wife in a pretty reasonable relationship, for many years in our relationship, about 31 of the 33 we have been together my wife would refuse to give me a BJ, then all of a sudden 18 months ago it all started like all my Christmas's came at once, then some small changes like she took up gym and walking/some jogging before she came home from work [ she does sleep over support work for people as a job ] I had my own business at that stage and I noticed sometimes she would come home from work and if I was to ask her things about my work [ she did the books ] she would tell me to go away and would be very bitchy" but that wasn't the issue, I would some times get the worst stomach sickly feelings you can think of, the like something is wrong feelings, any way this was heightened by the fact that I had spoken to 3 clairvoyants over this period, mainly just for life forcasting [ I do believe some are good ]and they have all said that she has been involved with another women / couple briefly ??. Again the reason for this inclusion is because my question is I like most males have fantasies regarding certain things in sex and one is to have a threesome with another male or female or both, it doesn't matter to me of which she flatly refuses, how ever she knows that some times I will look at porn as I know I have found girl porn web sites on her phone about 12 months ago of which she also flat out denied??, I sent her an email with a few suggestive things like watching her have sex in it last week to which I asked her to reply to and not to talk to me verbally about , only in writing as you can think better that way, to which she also ignored???, she is know starting to go into change of life so that makes it even more interesting, so after that "Bit of background" my Question is : Do you think she has done the deed' already and that's her Eternal secret and it's not going to happen for me?? or will she be swayed?? she also gets heavily involved in the Vampire episodes, Wentworth, and the Orange is Black stuff [ I don't ] I believe these shows have medium to high lesbianism in them ?? You would think I should know my wife better after all these years!!! don't get me wrong either, we both do love each other [ I do anyway !! ] ; Lee.