I have a closet full of nice things, many of them never used, that we got for our wedding years ago. What do you do with them? The things like china, nice picture frames, cake servers, etc. that remind me of the wedding and marriage. I feel awful about never having used a lot of those things that people spent money on and having such negative feelings about such nice gifts. Do you donate them? Keep them? Smash them in a fit of rage?