Hello all and I sure hope y'all can help. My husband & I got married 10/5/13. We knew we were buying a house, just didn't know the time frame. Well It happen AFTER the wedding (which we did NOT register for) and we have sense moved into the house and somewhat settled in. Yes, we do need things for our home and our mothers want to throw us a housewarming shower. My question is this, how should the invite ready with them throwing it & us registered at Target & Walmart without sounding pushy or greedy?